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What Makes You Secure?

What Makes You Secure?

What if you think the problem is you are overly cautious . . . and feel guilty if you’re not?

Audio Only Version of the Video Above:

What is the problem is you are overly cautious . . .  and feel guilty if you’re not.

You’re so concerned with making sure everyone else is fine that you end up feeling bored, craving more excitement.

The issue isn’t that you’re controlling life too tightly.  The issue is you don’t know how to trust any other way to feel secure.

In this episode we are looking at: What Makes You Secure?

You'll discover:

  • Your struggle with security
  • When to be cautious
  • What fuels your security

​Please do your best to watch/listen to each part in order.

What is your struggle with security?

Your struggle is trusting new environments and situations.  This is because you feel guilty for going against what others want you to do.

Even if they never actually said anything, your security is tied up with what you believe others expect.

You feel what they want, or more accurately, what you think they want, and it comes before anything you would choose for yourself.

This makes you think they’re totally selfish - although you also wish you could be that carefree!

You’re compliant, going along with it - until you feel wronged.  When that happens, you experience a disproportionate anger.

And then the cycle of guilt starts again.  Why?  Because that guilt then actually makes you feel secure.  Why does the guilt make you feel secure again?  Because it’s familiar.

When should you be cautious?

When others promise too much. 

People who do this know full well that your security is wrapped up in a cycle of pleasing others and the guilt you feel if you don’t comply.

They promise too much as a way to try and ease your guilt.

Rather than call them out straight away on their over-promise and their unreasonable expectations, you internalise their assurances as hope. 

But you’re so used to promises being broken that this is just a way to affirm to yourself you’re right to be cautious and not trust anyone.

So what fuels your security?   Consistency

When you experience consistency you start to trust. And the key is to start by being consistent with yourself.

What I found for a long time was that I was expecting others to fuel my security - hoping they would exceed expectations but really waiting to be crushed.

It doesn’t work, because the familiarity of feeling insecure actually becomes. your security.

Three things you can do to achieve a more secure life

  1. Raise your curiosity. When you’re curious you’re not fearful - curiosity expands your mental limits, and so expands your comfort zone, which creates more security.
  2. Improve your consistency with yourself. If you’re more consistent with yourself you’ll create a stronger inner relationship.
  3. Cut your losses. Stop putting your energy where it’s being sucked dry.

It will take a few goes – but you will start to feel you can move into what makes you secure. 

Remember it’s not about perfect, it's about PROGRESS.

Part 2:
Accompanying Meditation

Releasing The Chains of Caution Meditation

Give the Soul Directed Relationships Meditation a go, even if you’ve never done meditation before – just follow the words.

Complete The Meditation Now
Releasing The Chains of Caution Meditation
Part 2:
Accompanying Episode

Releasing The Chains of Caution Meditation

What if you think the problem is you are overly cautious . . . and feel guilty if you’re not?

Watch The Episode Now
Releasing The Chains of Caution Meditation
Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

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Orphan Archetype Workshop

When the Orphan energy is active, you wait for the rescue that never happened, you feel lost, don’t know where you fit in, you settle for less than you want and you desperately want to go ‘home’ but you don’t know where home is.

The Orphan energy chooses you to create the ultimate rescue, the connection to the self, beyond self-abandonment and into interdependence, the safe, secure world of true self-esteem and value.

Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

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Lover Archetype Workshop

When the Lover energy is active, your soul is at odds with your careful ego. You live a life switching between conquering fear, taking risks and the excitement of your consciousness expanding, followed by flopping back into the safety of what you know.

The Lover energy chooses you to connect with your personal source of power that’s not a climb for position or authority, not a power over another but real power - the power within.

Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

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King Archetype Workshop

When the King energy is active, your inner world is conflicted. Each time you step into your own rules, you hear the voice of the King’s shadow – the tyrant suggesting you are less than, how you’ll never live up to expectations and the weakling ‘prince’ who doesn’t protect your new path.

The solution is to step into the energy of the true King, the matured ‘male’ energy offering centred, confident direction from deep within. The unconscious pressure to ‘fit in’ evaporates as you step into your own leadership. .

Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

Get FREE Access Now To The

Queen Archetype Workshop

You’ve looked around, decided what you like, made judgements and now you’re going out on your own. Does what you want match with others or should you just become what you think they want?

This stage is answered through the process of Creating Your Own Values, by using your Queen Energy.

Heidi Sawyer is an intuition expert whose online courses, mentorship programmes and events have helped 74,498 Intuitive-Sensitive People understand their sensitivity as their greatest asset. Heidi’s business has helped more than 5,000 Intuitive-Sensitives recover from emotional-trauma, understand their intuition as their very own super-power for managing difficult people, career enhancement and better relationships. Watch Philosopher's Journey webinar replay here.

Heidi’s book, Highly Intuitive People has been a consistent best-seller since 2015 providing Intuitive-Sensitive People with the map of their life path. Heidi’s business exists because she understands the loneliness of opening to your deep world, and strove to provide the service she wanted to receive. To learn more about Heidi Sawyer click here.
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What Makes You Secure?

What if you think the problem is you are overly cautious . . . and feel guilty if you’re not?

Audio Only Version of the Video Above:

What is the problem is you are overly cautious . . .  and feel guilty if you’re not.

You’re so concerned with making sure everyone else is fine that you end up feeling bored, craving more excitement.

The issue isn’t that you’re controlling life too tightly.  The issue is you don’t know how to trust any other way to feel secure.

In this episode we are looking at: What Makes You Secure?

You'll discover:

  • Your struggle with security
  • When to be cautious
  • What fuels your security

​Please do your best to watch/listen to each part in order.

What is your struggle with security?

Your struggle is trusting new environments and situations.  This is because you feel guilty for going against what others want you to do.

Even if they never actually said anything, your security is tied up with what you believe others expect.

You feel what they want, or more accurately, what you think they want, and it comes before anything you would choose for yourself.

This makes you think they’re totally selfish - although you also wish you could be that carefree!

You’re compliant, going along with it - until you feel wronged.  When that happens, you experience a disproportionate anger.

And then the cycle of guilt starts again.  Why?  Because that guilt then actually makes you feel secure.  Why does the guilt make you feel secure again?  Because it’s familiar.

When should you be cautious?

When others promise too much. 

People who do this know full well that your security is wrapped up in a cycle of pleasing others and the guilt you feel if you don’t comply.

They promise too much as a way to try and ease your guilt.

Rather than call them out straight away on their over-promise and their unreasonable expectations, you internalise their assurances as hope. 

But you’re so used to promises being broken that this is just a way to affirm to yourself you’re right to be cautious and not trust anyone.

So what fuels your security?   Consistency

When you experience consistency you start to trust. And the key is to start by being consistent with yourself.

What I found for a long time was that I was expecting others to fuel my security - hoping they would exceed expectations but really waiting to be crushed.

It doesn’t work, because the familiarity of feeling insecure actually becomes. your security.

Three things you can do to achieve a more secure life

  1. Raise your curiosity. When you’re curious you’re not fearful - curiosity expands your mental limits, and so expands your comfort zone, which creates more security.
  2. Improve your consistency with yourself. If you’re more consistent with yourself you’ll create a stronger inner relationship.
  3. Cut your losses. Stop putting your energy where it’s being sucked dry.

It will take a few goes – but you will start to feel you can move into what makes you secure. 

Remember it’s not about perfect, it's about PROGRESS.

Part 2:
Accompanying Meditation

Releasing The Chains of Caution Meditation

Give the Soul Directed Relationships Meditation a go, even if you’ve never done meditation before – just follow the words.

Complete The Meditation Now
Releasing The Chains of Caution Meditation
Part 2:
Accompanying Episode

Releasing The Chains of Caution Meditation

What if you think the problem is you are overly cautious . . . and feel guilty if you’re not?

Watch The Episode Now
Releasing The Chains of Caution Meditation
Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

Get FREE Access Now To The

Orphan Archetype Workshop

When the Orphan energy is active, you wait for the rescue that never happened, you feel lost, don’t know where you fit in, you settle for less than you want and you desperately want to go ‘home’ but you don’t know where home is.

The Orphan energy chooses you to create the ultimate rescue, the connection to the self, beyond self-abandonment and into interdependence, the safe, secure world of true self-esteem and value.

Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

Get FREE Access Now To The

Magician Archetype Workshop

When the Magician energy is active, you have the ability to transform reality. It’s as though a magnetic field draws you to experiences that match your inner reality.

The Magician energy chooses you to connect with your healing potential and give you access to the unconscious world of wonderment, charm and the deeply connected spiritual self.

Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

Get FREE Access Now To The

Lover Archetype Workshop

When the Lover energy is active, your soul is at odds with your careful ego. You live a life switching between conquering fear, taking risks and the excitement of your consciousness expanding, followed by flopping back into the safety of what you know.

The Lover energy chooses you to connect with your personal source of power that’s not a climb for position or authority, not a power over another but real power - the power within.

Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

Get FREE Access Now To The

King Archetype Workshop

When the King energy is active, your inner world is conflicted. Each time you step into your own rules, you hear the voice of the King’s shadow – the tyrant suggesting you are less than, how you’ll never live up to expectations and the weakling ‘prince’ who doesn’t protect your new path.

The solution is to step into the energy of the true King, the matured ‘male’ energy offering centred, confident direction from deep within. The unconscious pressure to ‘fit in’ evaporates as you step into your own leadership. .

Part 3:
Are you ready to go deeper?

Get FREE Access Now To The

Queen Archetype Workshop

You’ve looked around, decided what you like, made judgements and now you’re going out on your own. Does what you want match with others or should you just become what you think they want?

This stage is answered through the process of Creating Your Own Values, by using your Queen Energy.

Heidi Sawyer is an intuition expert whose online courses, mentorship programmes and events have helped 74,498 Intuitive-Sensitive People understand their sensitivity as their greatest asset. Heidi’s business has helped more than 5,000 Intuitive-Sensitives recover from emotional-trauma, understand their intuition as their very own super-power for managing difficult people, career enhancement and better relationships. Watch Philosopher's Journey webinar replay here.

Heidi’s book, Highly Intuitive People has been a consistent best-seller since 2015 providing Intuitive-Sensitive People with the map of their life path. Heidi’s business exists because she understands the loneliness of opening to your deep world, and strove to provide the service she wanted to receive. To learn more about Heidi Sawyer click here.
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